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“Thank You”.

Yes indeed, “Thank You”.

These Parshos reiterate and enumerate the building of the Mishkan and the manufacturing of the Bigdei Kehunah.

In Parshas Pekudei, when Bnai Yisroel completed the building of the Mishkan and Bigdei Kehunah, the Posuk tells us: “Va’Yi’re Moshe Es Kol Ha’melochoh Ve’Heenai Osuh Oy’soh Ka’Asher Tzee’voh Hashem Keyn Osuh, Va’Yevoreich Osum Moshe. (39, 43).

Rashi on  Va’Yevoreich Osum Moshe says:  Omar Lo’Hem: Yehi Rotzon She’Tishreh Schechinah Be’Ma’aseh Ye’deichem.

Asks Rav Shimshon Pincus, ZT”L, what reason was there for Moshe Rabbeinu to bless Bnai Yisroel for completing the building of the Mishkan? After all, they were commanded to carry out the Tzeevui Hashem; for them to have not done so would have been a grave Aveirah resulting in severe punishment.

Further, says Rav Pincus, we see in Parshas Shemini, after Moshe and Ahron completed the cycle with the Avodas Hakorbonos to inaugurate the Mishkan, the Posuk tells us that they again blessed Bnei Yisroel with the very same Brocho: “Va’Yovoh Moshe Ve’Aharon El Ohel Moed Va’Yeitzu Va’Yevorchu Es Ho’ohm”.  And says Rashi, the Brocho was the same: “Yehi Rotzon She’Tishreh Schechinah Be’Ma’aseh Ye’deychem”.

Why did Bnei Yisroel merit to receive this Brocho twice? Once after they had completed their own hishtadlus in building the Mishkan, and second,- after Moshe and Aharon followed up by completing their own Avodas Ha’Mishkan?  What connection did Moshe and Aharaon’s own Shimush Hamishkan have to do with Bnai Yisroel?

Says Rav Pincus, indeed all of this is intertwined and connected; Moshe and Ahahron’s Avodas Hamishkan would not have been possible without the foundational work done by Bnai Yisroel.

We therefore learn a most valuable lesson in Hakoras Hatov from this: In the same way we show Hakoras Hatov to Hashem by making a Brocho before and a Brocho after-for all the Chasodim He does for us; so too are we required to show Hakoras Hatov to those of our friends, family, and work colleagues that do us a favor by saying “Thank You” twice: Once before the favor is done and then after the favor has been completed. Chazal tells us that failure to acknowledge the good done for us by our friends, family, and acquaintences will ultimately lead to deny and ignore the good Hashem does for us.

Showing Hakoras Hatov before and after receiving a Chesed is the foundation of Yahadus and brings Sholom (Peace), Satisfaction, and Happiness.

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A popular Ad/Commercial playing nowadays in the secular media is from a well-known Bank that touts the benefits of owning their credit card and all of the wonderful products and services you can purchase with it; their hook tag line is the question, “What’s in Your Wallet”.  It’s certainly a catchy phrase designed to increase a consumer’s conspicuous consumption; but lest the Madison Avenue advertising company responsible for this campaign preen for kudos, be it known that this weeks Parsha was first to pose and answer this question from the perspective of  Torah Hadracha and Hashkafa.

Bnai Yisroel were commanded to give a Ma’chatzis Ha’Shekel for the purpose of carrying out their Census.

The Posuk tells us:Zeh Yitnu Kol Hoh’Oveir Al Hapekudim Ma’chatzis Ha’Shekel Be’Shekel Hakodesh…Lo’seis Es Terumas Hashem Le’Chapear Al Nafshoseichem“.

Harav Shimshon Pincus, ZT”L poses three questions on this Posuk:

1.  What is the Torah’s message that this small amount of a half shekel had and has the power to atone and save one’s Nefesh and to prolong life and the quality of it?

2.  Why does the Torah describe the Macahtzis Ha’Shekel as “Shekel Hakodesh”?

3. Why does Hashem emphasize  a specificity in the coin type of Machatsis Ha’Shekel with “Zeh Yitnu”?

Rav Pincus brings the Rashi; “Zeh Yitnu”- Heroh Hakodesh Boruch Hu L’Moshe Ke’min Matbeyah Shel Eish U’Mishkoloh Ma’chatsis Ha’Shekel, Ve’Omer Lo: Ko’Zeh Yitnu”.

The Torah’s message, says Rav Pincus, is that our Tzedakah should be with Matbeiyos Shel Eish to be given with a bren, with enthusiasm, with a Simchas Ha’Chaim, and with an empathy and kind words to and for the recipient; “Ko’zeh Yitnu”.  The characteristic of Eish is that it cleanses and does not allow impurities and foreign particles to enter the mix.

And the sources of our monies as well as its expenditures must be “Shekel Ha’Kodesh”; the power of Tzedakah and hekdesh of money is not only in the support of Torah, Chessed organizations, and needy individuals but also as much in the avoidance of that which is antithetical to Torah values and Hashkafah. Such negative expenditures, says Rav Pincus, diminish ones Beis Mikdash Me’At and devalues his “Shekel Ha’Kodesh.

The Torah’s message to us, say Harav Pincus, is that Kesef Yehudi is not a Mah Be’Kach but are “Matbeiyos Shel Aish” and we therefore have a Choiv Kodesh to preserve, protect, and use  it Be’Kedusha; “Ve’Oz YeShamshu Le’Chapear al Nafshoseinu, Ve’Yoveeyu Berochos Merubos El Boteinu”.

“Zeh Yitnu”

“What’s in your wallet”?

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It appears from this weeks Parsha that indeed we can.

At Har Sinai the Posuk tells us: Ve’Chol Ha’Om Royen Es Hakolos V’Es Halapeydim. Rashi Z”L explains that Bnei Yisroel  ‘Roiyen Es Hanishma”, they saw the sounds- that which is heard- the Aseres Hadibros emanating from Hakodesh Boruch Hu and Moshe Rabbeinu.

The Sfas Emes Z”L asks how is this possible, how can we see a sound?

Answers the Sfas Emes that to appreciate this, we need to understand the differing characteristics of seeing and hearing.

When one sees an object, the object and stimulus remains external to the viewer and is not incorporated within the person.

On the other hand, when one hears a sound, it is internalized and becomes one with the person.

At Har Sinai, says the Sfas Emes, when Hashem said the words  “Ohnochi Hashem Elokecho”  Bnai Yisroel saw their shoresh chiyuso and as a part of their ‘Nishmas Hashem’ that resides within every Jewish soul, the Mahus of every Jew, the “Pintele Yid”. Their response was “Na’aseh, Ve’Nishmah!”, the external actions required to fulfill Mitzvos became internalized and woven into the Neshamah of every Yid.

How is Emunah acquired asks Harav Gamiliel HaKohen Rabinowitz, Shlita. By constantly speaking of Emunah; the external of speech will internalize and make it a part of us. Rav Gamliel brings the Posuk:

“He’Emanti Key Adahber Le’ma-an Tesaper B’oznei Bincho U’ben Bincho Es Ahsher His’ahlalti Be’Mitzrayim Ve’Es Ohsosei Ahsher Samti Bom Vee’Datem Key Ani Hashem.”

Emunah is strengthened by constantly speaking of it, “He’Emanti Key Adahber…” to the point where it becomes part of you.

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Asks Rav Shimshon Pincus Z”L and not go directly to Makkos Bechoros?

The first nine Makkos brought by Moshe Rabbeinu against Pharaoh and the Mitzriyim did not accomplish their goal of  Bnai Yisroel being sent out of Mitzrayim. Pharaoh maintained his extreme stubborness throughout until Hashem B’Kevodo, U’Vatzmo;  Ani V’Lo Malach,  Ani V’Lo Sorof, took Bnei Yisroel out of Mitzrayim.

Says Rav Pincus, Hashem is teaching us the proper Seder Hanhagah we are to follow in our Avodas Hashem and in strengthening our Emunah, Bitachon, and Tefillah: It is incumbent upon us to make our Hishtadlus and effort to our fullest capabilities and then will Hakodesh Boruch Hu bring the Yeshuas.

The Mesillas Yeshorim in this regard tells us that ” Techiloso Histadlus, V’Sofo Matanah”.  And the Gemoroh in Maseches Yuma ( 39 A)  tells us: “Adom Mekadesh Atzmo M’At, Mekadshim Oso Harbeh, Milmatah-Mekadshim Oso Milmalah”.

Hashem seeks only that we put forth our earnest efforts and He will do the rest. In Yiddish it’s phrased this way: Mir Darfen Tohn, Und der Aibeshter Vet Auf-Tohn. We must do, and Hashem will bring us to accomplishment.

Gut Shabbos.

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During the second plague of Tzvardiem even though Pharaoh’s magicians were successful in duplicating this feat, Pharaoh nevertheless implored Moshe to daven (“Hateeru”) to Hashem  to stop and remove this Makeh.  And as Rashi Z”L tells us “Kol Loshon Ater Pheelel Hu”, comes  M’Loshon Tefillah and as in “Va’yetar Yitzchok”,  a strong urging and importuning B’Tefillah.

The Ohr Hachaim Hakodosh, Z”L asks why did Pharaoh uncharacteristically ask Moshe to daven for him.  Says the Ohr Hachaim the answer can be found in the words of Pharaohs request: “Ve’Yoser Hatzvardiem Memeni”.  The Tzvardiem in addition to being all over the land causing overpowering noise and destruction, had also invaded inside the bodies and entrails of the Mitzreeyim. Pharaoh’s concern was self-preservation; he was afraid he would die. Interestingly in the next plague of Keenim, Pharaoh’s magicians could not duplicate it,  proclaiming it an “Etzbah Elokim” but as Pharaoh’s life was not endangered, he was unimpressed and refused to let Bnai Yirsoel leave.

There were two additional instances of Pharaoh imploring Moshe to daven to Hashem to save him.

The plague of Oroiv. Pharaoh requests that Moshe “Hateeru Ba’adi”, daven for me.

The plague of Bohrud. Pharaoh asks Moshe that he “Hateeru El Hashem”, daven to Hashem on my behalf.

Moshe Rabbeinu  responded positively to each request and davened on behalf of Pharoah with great Mesirus Nefesh.

Harav Shimshon Pincus Z”L tells us that we can learn a great deal from Moshe’s patient endurance and positive response to Pharoah’s stubborness , about the power of Tefillah, and the proper way we should approach  davening to Hashem.

1. In response to Pharoah’s first request at the plague of Tzvardiem, the posuk tells us: “Va’Yitzak Moshe El Hashem Al Dvar Ha’Tzvardiem.  Moshe understood that a regular tefillah would be insufficient to overcome Pharoah’s evil deeds, decrees, and stubborness, and therefore Tzo’okoh was necessary to bring a yeshua to Pharaoh.

2. To Pharoah’s second request at the plague of  Oroiv, the posuk tells us: Va’Yetze Moshe Me’im Pharaoh Va’yetar El Hashem”. Rashi gives the pshat  “”Nis’Ametz B’Tefillah Ve’Yirbeh Le’Hispallel”. Moshe realized that the situation had exacerbated and that a Tzo’okoh was no longer sufficient; he strengthened and increased his Tefillos.

3. To Pharaoh’s third request at the plague of Borud, the Posuk tells us that Moshe Rabbeinu’s response was: “K’Tsesi Es Ho’Ihr Efroish Es Kapiy El Hashem”.  Rav Pincus brings the Targum that Prishas Kapiyim is B’Tefillah and as it is brought in Megillas Eichah (3, 41) Nosoh Le’Voveinu El Kapayim El Keyl Bashomayim”. Says Rav Pincus that this is an incredible high level of Mesirus Nefesh in Tefillah as if one is separating himself from his corporeal body and standing before Hashem.

The Mussar to be learned by us from Moshe Rabbeinu’s approach to Tefillah says Rav Pincus is clear.  We are all, in one way or another, at some point touched by the “Etzbah Elokim” with nisoyon. Our response and approach is to be that of  deep and strong Tefillah with Deveikus and Emunas Hashem.

Shavua Tov!

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Rav Matisyahu Salamon Shlita, explains the difference between Emunah and Bitachon.

Emunah is a “concept” or a “theory”, while Bitachon is Emuna in action, or the application of Emunah into ones everyday life and actions.

Therefore, a person can theoretically be a “Ba’al Emunah” without being a “Ba’al Bitachon”. However, if one is truly a “Ba’al Bitachon”, then he must also be a “Ba’al Emunah” – and by definition!

Our job is to transform our conceptual understanding of Borei Olam (Emunah) into a concrete and working process of having Bitachon in Hashem.

What is the meaning of Emuna and Bitachon?

We tend to throw around the terms “Emunah and Bitachon” in tandem and we often forget or do not clearly distinguish between the two.

If we can translate Emunah as “Faith”, then perhaps Bitachon can be defined as “Trust”.

What is ‘trust’?

Rav Shimshon Pincus Zatzal spent much time talking about the meaning of Bitachon and how it is realistically applied. He points out that it is a big fallacy to think that proper Bitachon is to convince oneself in the face of adversity and danger, that there is no problem since Hashem will take care of everything.

This is wrong? “It’s not so pashut at all, the severity of the problems we face”, says Rav Shimshon.

In fact, proper Bitachon dictates that one should be fully aware of the clear and present danger which he is facing and to utilize that appropriate fear as a conduit for harnessing and channeling his trust in Hashem to help him out of his situation.

Indeed it can be said that if one is unaware of or minimizes the severity of the danger he is facing, he is unarmed with the proper tools to place his trust in Hashem’s salvation. In other words, it is the very real fear of danger  which can propel a person towards spiritual growth.

Rav Shimshon points out how it is said that the Brisker Rav Zatzal was a constant worrier. Indeed, during his flight from the accursed Nazis during the war, he would constantly  exclaim “they are coming to kill us”!!

Can it be said that the holy Brisker Rav was lacking in Bitachon? Only a fool would say this!

On the contrary, the Brisker Rav was a realist who understood and appreciated the severity of his situation and predicament. He recognized the danger he was in and properly and purposefully experienced and used his fear as a stepping stone to greatness by never removing Hashem Yisborach from his mind for even an instant! He would constantly reinforce his Bitachon in Hashem’s protection and salvation. Had he not experienced the acute fear for his life, perhaps he would have become complacent and might have ceased to think about Hashem and that he knew would be more dangerous than anything!

This, is the epitome of Bitachon – trust in Hashem!

…Not a blind trust, but rather a deep trust which emantes from and is reinforced by the understanding of the real danger one is facing and the fact that only Hashem can help him! Only Hashem can help a person navigate through the vicissitudes of life!

Indeed, it was this very same Brisker Rav who Rav Pincus said (as he himself heard from his Rebbe – the Brisker Rav’s son Rav Berel Soleveitchik, who was traveling with his Father at the time) was stopped by the Nazis while escaping by wagon. They were all ordered out of the wagon and Rav Berel stepped out first, whereupon he was ordered to hand over his watch to the Nazi guard who said “thank you for this gift”.

The Holy Brisker Rav then exited the wagon whereupon the guard took one look at his angelic face and exclaimed “Das iz Eingetlecher Mentsch”!! – “This is a God-like human being”! and he quickly returned the watch to Rav Berel and allowed them to continue traveling undisturbed!

The Rav who never took his mind off Borei Olam for a second during these difficult times, merited salvation from Hashem!

Says Rav Matisyahu Salamon, to simply remain with our Emunah in Hashem, places us in the same boat as some of the greatest gentile philosophers who were also ‘believers’, but did not live up to and act in accordance with their beliefs.

In fact, there was a noted philosopher who espoused moral values and who was caught engaged in a highly immoral act. When he was called on it and asked why the discrepancy between what he preached and what he actually practiced, he responded by saying that “when a Mathematician becomes a triangle and a Scientist becomes a test tube, then you may hold me to account and expect me to practice what I preach”!

We see here the clear and potential disconnect between belief (by itself and in isolation) as an intellectual pursuit and a theory, versus the practical application and integration of this concept into ones everyday life and actions.

This then, is our job when we are tasked with becoming “Ba’alei Bitachon”.

We must train ourselves (for all that is required is simple training and developing habits) to actually apply our belief system – or Emunah, into the concrete efforts of reliance – Bitachon in Hashem to help us in our trials and tribulations.

<Heard and Adapted From Talks by Rav Shimshon Pincus Z”L and Rav Matisyahu Salamon Shlitah>

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We know that there is a concept of ‘Yeridas Hadoros”. This means that there is a general weakening in our Yiddishkeit and standards of Yiddishkeit with the passing of each generation. Chazzal say this in so many words - and mention this concept in many different places. It is for this reason, for example, that if an Amora says a Halacha which contradicts a statement from one of the earlier Tana’im, we reject the psak of the Amorah and pasken Halachically, according to the earlier Tanah.

The question is, in what way have the generations become weaker? When it concerns the righteous men (Tzadikim) of previous generations, it should be obvious that the difference is qualitative and with respect to their superior knowledge of the Torah. The earlier generations were steeped in Torah and Avodah – and with each passing generation, we become weaker in this regard. However, where it concerns the women, exactly what is it that made the righteous women of the earlier generations qualitatively superior to the righteous women of our generation? Can it be said that the earlier women made a better potato kugel etc!

I have a kaballah from my Rebbeim that the qualitative superiority of our righteous grandmothers and great grandmothers of yesteryear was in their level of Emuna in Hashem Yisborach. These earlier women were saturated with feeling for Hashem. G-d wasn’t simply a ‘concept’ to our grandmothers. Rather, there was a palpable connection and feeling which they had for Hashem Yisborach. They literally lived with Hashem in the simplest form of understanding.

Today, we also ‘believe’ in Hashem. However, how ‘real’ is this belief? Do we feel Hashem and interact with him in our daily lives? Do we talk to Hashem just as we talk to our neighbor? Do we work on generating feelings of love for an Almighty G-d who runs this World from start to finish and who cares about each and every one of us and who desires to have a relationship with each of us…AND WHO IS AS REAL AS THIS TABLE BESIDE ME!

It is in this regard, that we have  become weaker and weaker with each passing generation. Hashem is becoming too much of a philosophy in our generation. We need to turn back the clock and develop and nurture feelings for Hashem, who is our Father and protector!

<Heard From Rav Shimshon Pincus>

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There is a misconception regarding the meaning of Bitachon- faith in Hashem. There are those who think that faith is to downplay the existence of a problem by placing your faith in Hashem. That somehow, if we train ourselves to have proper ”faith” in Hashem, we will come to the realization and appreciation that we need not make a big deal of our problems…that Hashem will “take care of us”.

This is a big fallacy.

We have to realize that the entire basis of proper faith, actually rests on our ability to be fully cognizant of the gravity of our predicament and of our problems and to use this as an impetus for reaching out to Hashem from the depths of our pain and anxiety.

Indeed, a person who does not fully appreciate the gravity of his problem, will be less motivated to reach out to Hashem as a result of his problems and will therefore miss the true opportunity to strengthen his emunah and bitachon as a (natural) result and byproduct of his crying out to Hashem. 

Rav Shlomo Ibn Gavriel composed a beautiful thought, a beautiful poem to describe this concept.

He says to Hashem “Im tifkod avoini – if my sins are just too much for you to bear”, “evrecha mimcha” – I will run away from you (Hashem) and I shall hide from you”, “eilecha – to you….(I shall literally run away from you – and run to you)”, “voeskaseh mechamosecha – and there shall I hide from your wrath and from your anger”….(where shall I do this?) “B’tzilecha – in your embrace oh Hashem”!

Rav Shimshon explains and illustrates this beautiful statement with the following observation. Have you ever witnessed a father playfully scare his child by making a scary face etc.? What does the scared child do? He runs “away” from his father…and straight into his fathers embrace….he literally runs from his father, to his father.

Indeed, it is only the fear of the problem and the concern, which brings us to Hashems door.

This is also reflected in the pasuk of Tehilim, where Dovid Hamelech writes: “Ani Yom Irah, Eilech Eftach” – “In a day of fear, I run to you Hashem”.

When we fear, we pray. When we pray, we come close to Hashem and we develop our Bitachon.

<Heard From Rav Shimshon Pincus>

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